It's ridiculous how people will try to get even with someone, especially over something that's so trivial. What people fail to realize is, revenge doesn't work. Some People will spend their whole life trying to get even with others. When you try to hurt someone out of spite, you only end up hurting yourself in the end. It's time to get over it and let it go.
See the problem with revenge is, it's a never ending cycle. Once someone starts, they will not want to stop. Nothing is resolved through revenge. It's counterproductive and pointless. Inflicting harm or pain on someone will not make you feel any better. People often forget that karma is very real.. What goes around will always come back around in the end. Seeking vengeance is a complete waste of time and energy. Over the years, I've learned to let God deal with my problems. The best revenge is no revenge at all.
I also believe in karma and trust that it will provide balance. What you give, you get. If you feel like a victim, and you think about revenge, you will always be in situations where you will be a victim again and you will have reasons for revenge again. Revenge is really not the solution, it is a vicious circle, as you wrote.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. Seeking revenge is such a waste of precious time and energy. I am a strong believer of karma. We only get what we give.
ReplyDeleteYou are correct. Revenge actually destroys humanity and the goodness within you. I believe in Karma too. What is wrong in loving and pardoning someone. Very nice thoughts.
ReplyDeleteIf you seek revenge to make the others feel the pain, then it wouldn't work and hence, will make your feelings even worst. But, when you seek a POSITIVE revenge for yourself, surely that will work.
ReplyDeleteWhat goes around comes around. Let the karma handle it.
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