Why Does Everything Have To Be A Competition?︱LoveMidaa

Friday, December 11, 2020

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In today's world, people are always trying to outdo each other. Why does everything in life have to be a competition? What is the REAL problem?


I've noticed the whole "competition trend" in real life and on social media. Honestly, It's really pathetic how people are behaving. Women are competing with each other over the craziest things. Families are being torn apart, and friendships are being ruined everyday due to silly, competitive games. Whatever happened to sticking together and being there for one another? Whatever happened to girl power? With everything that's going on in the world right now, this is the last thing we should be thinking about. This really needs to stop. 

Sadly, I have experienced this too. Ever since I was a child, girls would always try to compete with me, but I never understood why. I stayed to myself. I never thought I was better than anyone else. I was, and still is very humble. Even to this day, I still have people competing with me. My question is why? What is the point of trying to compete with others, when you can take some of that time to better yourself?

Me personally, I have never felt the need to compete. Why? Because I'm confident. I know I'm good at what I do. When you have confidence and feel secure within yourself, you will not feel the need to battle with others. You'll be so busy working on yourself, you won't even have time to worry about what someone else is doing. At the end of the day, the only person you should be competing with is yourself.

During this time, what we should be focusing on is getting along with one another. We should start being there for each other more often. We got to do better than this. 

2 comments

  1. I agree with you. Competition at sports is ok because thats what it is meant to be. But not in real life. One should be confident of oneself.

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  2. competition trend is really sucks! " Sorry for my word" That's why I decide to do social detox. Social media is very awful nowadays! Awesome topic.

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