I was having a deep conversation with one of my fellow blog friends last night. We were talking about how both us have been dealing with the haters, and how we are handling this. She was telling me about how one of her haters rude comments on one her recent makeup videos upset her. The commenter said her makeup looks were "too extreme" and how she hated everything about them. A week later the hater admitted they was wrong, cried and then apologized for their rude remarks. She told the hater off, then blocked them. I'm also in the beauty community and being that I'm a makeup artist too, I can relate to this.
I have similar experiences. One time, a group of haters messaged me on social media and told me to stop. When I asked them why, they said there was no reason and told me to quit. So sad! I seen what they were trying to do the whole time. They messaged me again three months later begging for me to help them, apologizing for being so hurtful. Then, I had a toxic ex friend that was lying and trying to steal my blog, photos, nails, and makeup. She basically tried to be me, but got caught. That was bad a idea, my content is copywritten and copywrite laws are no laughing matter. Another time, a different hater messaged me about my makeup photos and told me my natural lips were too big. Then admitted they were wrong for coming at me like that. They all apologized but it was too late! These haters are envious and even admitted they wanted to be in my shoes. Yikes! True stories..
Why is it that these people throw insults? Why do they send hurtful messages and comments to content creators, cause chaos then apologize afterwards? Why can't they realize their issues before hand? Why can't they stop themselves from attacking people that are only trying to help them? Why? Well simply because "haters" are unhealed people. This is why it's important to heal. When a person doesn't do their inner work on themselves and do what's needed to heal themselves from within, that is who they become, a hater. A unhealed toxic individual spewing envy, hatred, and toxicity at everyone they in counter. That is why I tell my haters to heal. Heal.. please heal.
I'm not going stop, walk away, or delete anything. let's just make that clear! This is what I love to do and will continue to keep going. Nor will I tolerate the disrespect.. Respect is a two way street, not one. I've had a quite few people disrespect me, then got extremely mad when I stood up for myself. The audacity! I will not sit back, be disrespected for no reason then not say anything about it. No way, that's crazy lol! In this business, you will always have someone trying to hurt you or insult you because of their own insecurities. Can't let that stop you though, you have to keep going especially if it's something you love. I'm continuing to move forward.
Photo Credit: Heybeautimagazine
Hello! First, I will start off by saying Happy New Year. Hopefully everyone is having a good year so far. This will be my first blog post for 2024, I'm back. 2023 was a wild year to say the least. Last year definitely had it's ups and downs, but the good blessings outweighed the bad. Thankfully through the grace of God we made it through to another year. Where have I been? Well, I took a step back again to focus on my personal life, family, and other things.
Recently, one of my dear friends from middle school reached out to me by email. She was going through a tough time and was contemplating suicide. I was there for her, cried with her, guided her, and stopped her from hurting herself. That was an emotional, eye opening experience. She's doing better now and I'm happy. This is why I teach! This is not about competition, it's about helping the ones that really need positive, truthful guidance, love, and compassion. This is about making a difference and changing lives.
People often ask me, how do I have so much knowledge at such a young age? How am I'm able to be a light in people's lives during their darkest times and give guidance? Mostly through my own personal life experiences... I understand.
I know pain. I know how it feels to feel left out, hopeless, and alone. I understand how it feels to be bullied, to feel like you are not enough. I know! Growing up... I had a difficult childhood. I was bullied and teased for basically everything, my height (I'm 4'10) and weight. I had to stop thinking so negatively about myself, build my confidence and learn to love myself. During that process, I realized that nothing was wrong with me. I'm beautiful and that I am enough. There's nothing wrong with being confident and feeling good about yourself.
Last year, I took a step back mainly to make some serious changes in my life. I had to cut off toxic so called "friends" and family members. This was an emotional process that needed to be done in order to move forward. Then, I had a brief creative blockage that needed to be worked on. Thinking of different nail art designs to do next, more of that will be coming soon. My nails get a lot of compliments mostly because of their uniqueness. My designs are beautiful, unique, and detailed. Thank you for the compliments. I truly put my heart in everything that I do, and appreciate the love.
More coming soon!
I absolutely adore how this set came out. I used a beautiful, vibrant pinkish coral gel nail polish. Then added some ab crystals as a finishing touch, a pretty simple set. I love nail crystals and glitter, so pretty! This will be the 7th Gel X set I've done on myself so far and I'm loving it. I'm a nail artist so, this was really easy for me to do on my own. I do mostly acrylics and press-ons on myself personally. One day, I decided to try gel extensions and caught on super fast after the second time.
The gel extension process is similar to the press on nail process but instead of using regular nail glue, you are using UV gel nail glue. Gel x nails require a UV nail lamp, gel nail extensions and UV nail glue. As with any nail process, gel extensions cannot be rushed, or they will not come out correctly! Trust me, I know. Anyways, I had fun doing this bright, pinky set yesterday. I am back! ♡︎
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Hello everyone, I'm back again. People have been asking me where have I been, why haven't I been posting much lately. Well, I took a break from posting to focus on myself and other things going on in my life. No, I didn't "Quit". Hahaha! I mean, life happens. Just because I take a break once in a while from posting doesn't mean I'm quitting. I love what I do, Why would I stop?
Another question I received, Are my page views real? Yes! my page views are 100% real authentic views from my readers, followers, and visitors. Regarding the haters, I simply ignore them. There's some people that doubt me and my abilities, think I'm "lying" about who I'm truly am, and people that hate me because of who I am. This is the real, authentic me and this is what I do. I'm gifted! I try not to talk about the "haters" much because they're negative, and I'm not here for the drama. I'm not going to go too in depth on this post because this is a short update. Wrapping up this post, answering recent questions I've been getting.
More coming soon.
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